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<blockquote data-quote="Weary Mother" data-source="post: 696936" data-attributes="member: 20487"><p>Hello,</p><p>What happened is this. The child's mother and my son were not married, she being pregnant with their second child and due to deliver 1 month after his arrest. The woman was not a nice person either, and was abusive, but they lived about an hour and a half away during the several years they were together. So when he was arrested, I kept in touch with her and allowed her to come to my home and stay when she came to town to visit him in the county jail and I tried to help her as much as I could. But he was transferred to prison, and eventually she found another relationship. At that time she quit communicating with me and refuses to this day to respond to any of my attempts. But we also had a very bad falling out after he was arrested the second time due to her attempting to confiscate his vehicle, which I did not allow. So, after this long story, the bottom line is that the child is now 11 and is in a home that may not have drugs but surely is not a good place either for him. My heart aches for him and I have a photo of him on my fridge to remind me daily of him. I pray that when he is old enough he will come see me and I believe he will. At that time the mother and father will have no say in what happens and I can at least be a loving person in his life, I feel he will need that after all he has been through.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Weary Mother, post: 696936, member: 20487"] Hello, What happened is this. The child's mother and my son were not married, she being pregnant with their second child and due to deliver 1 month after his arrest. The woman was not a nice person either, and was abusive, but they lived about an hour and a half away during the several years they were together. So when he was arrested, I kept in touch with her and allowed her to come to my home and stay when she came to town to visit him in the county jail and I tried to help her as much as I could. But he was transferred to prison, and eventually she found another relationship. At that time she quit communicating with me and refuses to this day to respond to any of my attempts. But we also had a very bad falling out after he was arrested the second time due to her attempting to confiscate his vehicle, which I did not allow. So, after this long story, the bottom line is that the child is now 11 and is in a home that may not have drugs but surely is not a good place either for him. My heart aches for him and I have a photo of him on my fridge to remind me daily of him. I pray that when he is old enough he will come see me and I believe he will. At that time the mother and father will have no say in what happens and I can at least be a loving person in his life, I feel he will need that after all he has been through. [/QUOTE]
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