Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
feeling desperate
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 685337" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>I just want to give you some additional support for what you did yesterday. It is very hard to do, and then often, once we do it, we regret it and we get scared. </p><p></p><p>I see from your post that he has a car. Worst case, he can sleep in his car. My son was homeless without a car for a long long time. </p><p></p><p>There is a lot of help for homeless people. If it gets to that point with him, it will be hard on you so you may want to find out what is available so you don't drive yourself crazy with worry.</p><p></p><p>Please know this: You are giving him and his life a chance for real change here.</p><p></p><p>If nothing changes, nothing changes. </p><p></p><p>And our DCs will ride our train as long as we will let them. Every single one of them.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Distance does help and separation helps and what isn't in front of your eyes is a good thing. There is usually a great deal we don't know and will never know...and you know what? We don't need to know.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there when you start worrying and feeling guilty. We so understand. Our DCs are resilient and they are survivors.</p><p></p><p>Keep us posted on you. Enjoy your new peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 685337, member: 17542"] I just want to give you some additional support for what you did yesterday. It is very hard to do, and then often, once we do it, we regret it and we get scared. I see from your post that he has a car. Worst case, he can sleep in his car. My son was homeless without a car for a long long time. There is a lot of help for homeless people. If it gets to that point with him, it will be hard on you so you may want to find out what is available so you don't drive yourself crazy with worry. Please know this: You are giving him and his life a chance for real change here. If nothing changes, nothing changes. And our DCs will ride our train as long as we will let them. Every single one of them. Distance does help and separation helps and what isn't in front of your eyes is a good thing. There is usually a great deal we don't know and will never know...and you know what? We don't need to know. Hang in there when you start worrying and feeling guilty. We so understand. Our DCs are resilient and they are survivors. Keep us posted on you. Enjoy your new peace. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
feeling desperate
Top