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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 645380" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>You are not a fool! And yes we all beat ourselves up for doing too little or too much. I bet if you asked your sister she would tell you things are not perfect in her world either. Her kids may be more independent but they also may resent her for being that way. You will never know because its the kind of things people don't talk about. We only talk about it because our difficult child's make it obvious to the whole world that there is an issue and therefore people want to talk to us about it. Judge us for it as well.</p><p> </p><p>Reality is your son can do these things he just isnt. I didn't say he would be good at them but he can do it. The best thing you can do now is allow him to learn and to do for himself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 645380, member: 15473"] You are not a fool! And yes we all beat ourselves up for doing too little or too much. I bet if you asked your sister she would tell you things are not perfect in her world either. Her kids may be more independent but they also may resent her for being that way. You will never know because its the kind of things people don't talk about. We only talk about it because our difficult child's make it obvious to the whole world that there is an issue and therefore people want to talk to us about it. Judge us for it as well. Reality is your son can do these things he just isnt. I didn't say he would be good at them but he can do it. The best thing you can do now is allow him to learn and to do for himself. [/QUOTE]
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