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<blockquote data-quote="layne" data-source="post: 626624" data-attributes="member: 17997"><p>My mothers day was hard. When my daughter feels pressured just to spend one entire day with me, it really gets to her. She has to have long talks with herself and her friends/boyfriend (if she has one at the time) to spend the day with me. There is signs of improvement from previous years because at least now she feels guilt for not spending at least mothers day with me, however, she will explode on me first. This past mothers day, a few days ago, we got into an argument and the venom came out of how much she hated me, didn't like me as a person, that I was a piece of sh*t and her life is the way it is because of me. All of these text messages as I am crying alone in a food shopping parking lot. Than I guess she felt bad and softened up. That seems to be a theme with us that we are having lately. We explode and say the most vile things to each other, get it off of our chest and then resume our day. I just don't know how to feel about that because we can't be calling each other vile names, about to kill each other and the next hour we are sitting at Outback laughing happily. There is something seriously wrong with that. It can not be healthy. However, it's a step forward than having our day completely ruined. At least we are trying to put effort into having some sort of mother/daughter relationship. <Shrug, I just don't know how to feel about it></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="layne, post: 626624, member: 17997"] My mothers day was hard. When my daughter feels pressured just to spend one entire day with me, it really gets to her. She has to have long talks with herself and her friends/boyfriend (if she has one at the time) to spend the day with me. There is signs of improvement from previous years because at least now she feels guilt for not spending at least mothers day with me, however, she will explode on me first. This past mothers day, a few days ago, we got into an argument and the venom came out of how much she hated me, didn't like me as a person, that I was a piece of sh*t and her life is the way it is because of me. All of these text messages as I am crying alone in a food shopping parking lot. Than I guess she felt bad and softened up. That seems to be a theme with us that we are having lately. We explode and say the most vile things to each other, get it off of our chest and then resume our day. I just don't know how to feel about that because we can't be calling each other vile names, about to kill each other and the next hour we are sitting at Outback laughing happily. There is something seriously wrong with that. It can not be healthy. However, it's a step forward than having our day completely ruined. At least we are trying to put effort into having some sort of mother/daughter relationship. <Shrug, I just don't know how to feel about it> [/QUOTE]
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