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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 695539" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Lil, I cant believe this. I just told him what you said and he said his attorney said it was suicide fir ex's case. He thought it was good for Son. Son then said "It isn't for the case. I wanted it over because I cant take it anymore. I needed it over tomorrow."</p><p></p><p>Jeez. One thing I've learned is that court isnt emotional and about what you personally want. Better to win the case. And, Lil, I already think Grandson both depends on Son and worries too much about Son. Grandson is only eight.</p><p></p><p>My son needs to man up. If he doesnt, then Grandson has abuse in one house and worry in the other. I would like to have a bigger role in Grandsons life because I HAVE become atrong, but Son wont drive him to Chicago where it would be easy to see him. Im in Chicsgo All.The.Time. But he won't do it. It is hard to get from where I live to St. Louis. It takes three switches and I get there at 12am and have to leave at 4am. In a dangerous section of St. Louis. Its easier for me to get to Chicago....oh, well. Dream on.</p><p></p><p>Then he went on to tell me that even if he yells at me and is hostile, I need to "keep on doing what you're doing."</p><p></p><p>I told him I had no idea what he meant because he kept hanging up on me.</p><p></p><p>He said, yes, I did know what to say and what not to say and called me stupid.</p><p></p><p>Really????</p><p></p><p>I have no idea what I should and shouldnt say and frankly am dog tired of trying to guess.</p><p></p><p>I told him to call me when he could handle things better, that this isn't my fault and I dont want him insulting me.</p><p></p><p>But he hung up before I finished. I didnt even get to be the one to hsng up lol.</p><p></p><p>I put my phone in a drawer on silence after first texting Sonic, Princess and Jumper that I wont be available the rest of the day and to call Husbands cell if there is an emergency.</p><p></p><p>I am so sick of this. Try, try, try...for what? It doesnt work.</p><p></p><p>Al Anon is tomorrow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 695539, member: 1550"] Lil, I cant believe this. I just told him what you said and he said his attorney said it was suicide fir ex's case. He thought it was good for Son. Son then said "It isn't for the case. I wanted it over because I cant take it anymore. I needed it over tomorrow." Jeez. One thing I've learned is that court isnt emotional and about what you personally want. Better to win the case. And, Lil, I already think Grandson both depends on Son and worries too much about Son. Grandson is only eight. My son needs to man up. If he doesnt, then Grandson has abuse in one house and worry in the other. I would like to have a bigger role in Grandsons life because I HAVE become atrong, but Son wont drive him to Chicago where it would be easy to see him. Im in Chicsgo All.The.Time. But he won't do it. It is hard to get from where I live to St. Louis. It takes three switches and I get there at 12am and have to leave at 4am. In a dangerous section of St. Louis. Its easier for me to get to Chicago....oh, well. Dream on. Then he went on to tell me that even if he yells at me and is hostile, I need to "keep on doing what you're doing." I told him I had no idea what he meant because he kept hanging up on me. He said, yes, I did know what to say and what not to say and called me stupid. Really???? I have no idea what I should and shouldnt say and frankly am dog tired of trying to guess. I told him to call me when he could handle things better, that this isn't my fault and I dont want him insulting me. But he hung up before I finished. I didnt even get to be the one to hsng up lol. I put my phone in a drawer on silence after first texting Sonic, Princess and Jumper that I wont be available the rest of the day and to call Husbands cell if there is an emergency. I am so sick of this. Try, try, try...for what? It doesnt work. Al Anon is tomorrow. [/QUOTE]
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