Hi, I'm new to this site but very glad I found it. My daughter who will be 21 in a month, lives at home with me and my husband who is not her father. She suffers from anxiety but will not take her medications. She does nothing to help around the house, she's out all night and sleeps all day. She is working 15 hours a week and recently wrecked her car and got a dui so she takes my car every night to work which leaves me carless. She feels that I need to supply her with food, toiletries, etc., etc. She is disrespectful and does things that I have told her repeatedly not to do like leaving dirty dishes in her room. We had mice last year because of this and she still does it! She doest pay rent or for any bills but her phone but she thinks she's entitled to lay on the couch and watch TV on a Sunday and if my husband and I want to watch TV, we should go to our bedroom. She has a TV in her room too. I feel trapped, used, angry, and helpless. If I throw her out, my parents would take her in and she would make them go nuts! They are in their 70's and don't need that stress! I just don't know what to do! My husband and her don't speak. I'm always the middle man that hears the complaints because they won't take it up with each other. She smokes pot every day and we don't want in in our house. She had her friends outside the other night smoking it! We have close neighbors. She just does what she wants. I don't know if I can survive this much longer!