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<blockquote data-quote="SoCalMomOf2" data-source="post: 701182" data-attributes="member: 20942"><p>[USER=1]@runawaybunny[/USER] Thank you so much for your response on my posting and the informational links!</p><p></p><p>[USER=1233]@susiestar[/USER] When you mention sensory, it immediatly brought instances to my mind...not sure if these relate, but i.e. He hates the car windows down (at all)... he screams that it hurts his ears- unless he puts them down himself, when he is making odd noises (As he typically does)... if I try to play along he has a tantrum and tells me to STOP and go away. At every school he attends he is disrespectful, defiant towards the teachers, walks out of classrooms, throws toys, he fights other kids... When I talk to him about it he tells me, " I'm bored" or " So and So was making fun of me and I got angry". I do recall one report from the 3rd school he was in, that stated there was a major disruption because a child told Oliver to " Stop making noises" and asked him why he's weird <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" />. My son never forgot that, in fact he remembers it to the point where he will tell people that he's weird. Sometimes, it is hard to gauge where his mind is at... Instead of watching cartoons last week with his little sister after dinner, he built an entire replica with legos of the<em> Mary Celeste</em> and then proceeded to give me the entire run down on the ship. I feel guilty for saying this but I had no idea what he's talking about! lol Thank you for the book recommendations, I have read The <em><strong>ADD</strong></em> & <em><strong>ADHD</strong></em> Answer Book...as his therapist is the Author of that one.</p><p></p><p>[USER=11227]@Malika[/USER] I am honestly not sure... after a few visits and spending time with him, she informed us that he has Severe ADHD and ODD. I had taken him to the pediatrician first, and she literally told me that " there are so many kids having these behavioral problems in Los Angeles now, that he has to be on a waiting list for a specialist." Which we are still on... and that was set up during the Summer. He gets upset if you tell him no to absolutly anything... whether it's no you can't have ketchup with your hot dog, or no you can't play with this toy. He often gets upset in public places and runs...he's taken off - and hidden, only to be brought back by a store associate and then he blames his running on things like, " those people were laughing at me" " or the bug is annoying me, don't you see the bug flying around me".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SoCalMomOf2, post: 701182, member: 20942"] [USER=1]@runawaybunny[/USER] Thank you so much for your response on my posting and the informational links! [USER=1233]@susiestar[/USER] When you mention sensory, it immediatly brought instances to my mind...not sure if these relate, but i.e. He hates the car windows down (at all)... he screams that it hurts his ears- unless he puts them down himself, when he is making odd noises (As he typically does)... if I try to play along he has a tantrum and tells me to STOP and go away. At every school he attends he is disrespectful, defiant towards the teachers, walks out of classrooms, throws toys, he fights other kids... When I talk to him about it he tells me, " I'm bored" or " So and So was making fun of me and I got angry". I do recall one report from the 3rd school he was in, that stated there was a major disruption because a child told Oliver to " Stop making noises" and asked him why he's weird :(. My son never forgot that, in fact he remembers it to the point where he will tell people that he's weird. Sometimes, it is hard to gauge where his mind is at... Instead of watching cartoons last week with his little sister after dinner, he built an entire replica with legos of the[I] Mary Celeste[/I] and then proceeded to give me the entire run down on the ship. I feel guilty for saying this but I had no idea what he's talking about! lol Thank you for the book recommendations, I have read The [I][B]ADD[/B][/I] & [I][B]ADHD[/B][/I] Answer Book...as his therapist is the Author of that one. [USER=11227]@Malika[/USER] I am honestly not sure... after a few visits and spending time with him, she informed us that he has Severe ADHD and ODD. I had taken him to the pediatrician first, and she literally told me that " there are so many kids having these behavioral problems in Los Angeles now, that he has to be on a waiting list for a specialist." Which we are still on... and that was set up during the Summer. He gets upset if you tell him no to absolutly anything... whether it's no you can't have ketchup with your hot dog, or no you can't play with this toy. He often gets upset in public places and runs...he's taken off - and hidden, only to be brought back by a store associate and then he blames his running on things like, " those people were laughing at me" " or the bug is annoying me, don't you see the bug flying around me". [/QUOTE]
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