her to please write down on her little pad of paper that when difficult child gets out of control she becomes a "danger to herself and others".
To which Idiot Caseworker responded..."What? You mean like she uses bad language?"
(Yes, she really and truly said that! She honestly seemed to believe that the worst possible outburst was one that involved cuss words)
So difficult child explained that when she gets angry she wants to hurt people. She throws things, kicks walls, and would attack anyone who got close enough.
And caseworker asked "And you swear?"
AAARRRGGGHHHH!
So the goal the caseworker wrote up is difficult child not having tantrums that involve screaming, yelling and swearing 13 out of 14 days. She wrote NOTHING about difficult child being dangerous.