We have waited 2 years for this! Sammy's therapist finally saw the real Sammy. He finally saw all of the behavior we have been describing! He has tried for 2 years to aggrivate Sammy and make him go into his rage. Nothing worked. Finally yesterday, Sammy did it all for him. He finally saw how Sammy would tantrum for an entire day with 5 good minutes in each hour. He saw how Sammy would sit and scream "I want Mommy" and if you go near him he screams no and away and bangs his head and thrashes around. He saw how when he is like this you cant interact with him at all. He saw how Sammy would be having a blast playing and then BOOM Tantrum for no apparant reason. I am so happy he saw all of this. Not that there are any answers,but at least he has seen what we are talking about. He is currently trying to get Sammy to walk in public. Sammy does not walk when we go out. He wont sit in a stroller either. That means, when we go out, we carry a 35 pound child around. If we dont carry him,he goes crazy with headbanging on the ground... I am just happy he saw it!