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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 647598" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I sent you two answers back. Let me know if you got them both. The first answer was kind of scattered because there was so much to share and it was not fun to share it. The second message tried to straighten out the chaos, in case there were things that didn't make sense. Message me again if you want to "talk."</p><p></p><p>Some things the experience taught us is that not all kids can be saved and, yes, kids can have no conscience...we stopped even thinking about adopting older children. Most are just too damaged by their early lives...at least that was our experience. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is very frightening. That was the end. In fact, we kept our family as is after that. The children we adopted very, very young are bonded to us and doing really well. It is no different than if they had been our birth children. There are as attached to us as our one biological child is. But I believe you need those first years with a child in order to have it work out well, although I'm sure there are exceptions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 647598, member: 1550"] I sent you two answers back. Let me know if you got them both. The first answer was kind of scattered because there was so much to share and it was not fun to share it. The second message tried to straighten out the chaos, in case there were things that didn't make sense. Message me again if you want to "talk." Some things the experience taught us is that not all kids can be saved and, yes, kids can have no conscience...we stopped even thinking about adopting older children. Most are just too damaged by their early lives...at least that was our experience. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is very frightening. That was the end. In fact, we kept our family as is after that. The children we adopted very, very young are bonded to us and doing really well. It is no different than if they had been our birth children. There are as attached to us as our one biological child is. But I believe you need those first years with a child in order to have it work out well, although I'm sure there are exceptions. [/QUOTE]
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