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<blockquote data-quote="Second Time Around" data-source="post: 676523" data-attributes="member: 18739"><p>Hi UK, something that might help you to feel less guilty is to cut back on contact with him. If he's not in your face trying to blame you for his problems, it's easier to focus on other things. If you're having a bad evening and he calls, maybe choose not to answer the phone just then and call back another day. Or if he starts texting hateful messages, then delete his texts without reading them. Enjoy your time with your other children and don't even mention anything to him about the trip. He has chosen this lifestyle. His complaints are just manipulation to get to you feel bad and then give him money. He's trying to push the responsibility for his choices off on you. There is nothing for you to feel guilty about. No one deserves to be treated badly. You deserve to enjoy your life without all the drama and stress.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Second Time Around, post: 676523, member: 18739"] Hi UK, something that might help you to feel less guilty is to cut back on contact with him. If he's not in your face trying to blame you for his problems, it's easier to focus on other things. If you're having a bad evening and he calls, maybe choose not to answer the phone just then and call back another day. Or if he starts texting hateful messages, then delete his texts without reading them. Enjoy your time with your other children and don't even mention anything to him about the trip. He has chosen this lifestyle. His complaints are just manipulation to get to you feel bad and then give him money. He's trying to push the responsibility for his choices off on you. There is nothing for you to feel guilty about. No one deserves to be treated badly. You deserve to enjoy your life without all the drama and stress. [/QUOTE]
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