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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 677259" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>You have done so much to help your son and while he's going to his AA meetings that doesn't always mean that he's truly working the program. People can attend AA for years and be sober but they are nothing more than a dry drunk just as SWOT said.</p><p></p><p></p><p>This is just so scary. The feces is one thing but if the child had ingested those pills..... just so scary.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, it is neglect. It would appear that he needs supervised visits. I don't think I could trust him to be alone with GS for one minute.</p><p></p><p></p><p>This coupled with the neglect clearly shows he does not care for his child. I am wondering what is motivating him to spend anytime at all with his son? I remember when my son and my daughter in-law were separating my son went on a rant about how he was going to fight for custody I knew his motives were not for the well being of his children but more of an attitude that he was not going to lose. My son is very manipulative and a control freak. Needless to say his words were just empty threats and he ended up abandoning his children.</p><p>If your GS was not under your care but another foster family do you think your son would still be going to see him? I just wonder if because it's you that have GS that is why your son puts forth the effort.</p><p></p><p>You are in such a tough place. I admire you so much for taking in your GS. Ultimately your GS and his well being have to come first.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there Tish. Thanks for posting and sharing. It's good to hear from you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 677259, member: 18516"] You have done so much to help your son and while he's going to his AA meetings that doesn't always mean that he's truly working the program. People can attend AA for years and be sober but they are nothing more than a dry drunk just as SWOT said. This is just so scary. The feces is one thing but if the child had ingested those pills..... just so scary. Yes, it is neglect. It would appear that he needs supervised visits. I don't think I could trust him to be alone with GS for one minute. This coupled with the neglect clearly shows he does not care for his child. I am wondering what is motivating him to spend anytime at all with his son? I remember when my son and my daughter in-law were separating my son went on a rant about how he was going to fight for custody I knew his motives were not for the well being of his children but more of an attitude that he was not going to lose. My son is very manipulative and a control freak. Needless to say his words were just empty threats and he ended up abandoning his children. If your GS was not under your care but another foster family do you think your son would still be going to see him? I just wonder if because it's you that have GS that is why your son puts forth the effort. You are in such a tough place. I admire you so much for taking in your GS. Ultimately your GS and his well being have to come first. Hang in there Tish. Thanks for posting and sharing. It's good to hear from you. [/QUOTE]
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