Well as I expected my daughter is already complaining that the girl she is staying with in Florida is not her type, maybe because she doesn't smoke pot and works a full time job!!! and of course there are no jobs she is interested in, because she cant find a job that pays BIG BUCKS and offers her a manager job or something when she practically has no experience in anything! So basically this has been a free vacation for her and she will be home soon and back to her same old routine!! She gets angry at me because when she talks to me I am not overwhelmed with joy and hope that she is finally gonna get her life together! I have tried to be supportive sooo many times!! Its hard to keep it up! When I took my grandson back to his dads yesterday, I asked him for my grandsons clothes so I could wash them, since they have no washer and dryer! So he took me inside and showed me where my daughter keeps all the dirty clothes, out on the sun porch! I am not kidding there were clothes stacked up a foot high from her and her 2 oldest boys and my grandson! Now I am not siding with him because he does have a huge anger issue....but my daughter is a slob!!!! She always has been and when he says she sits on her butt all day and does nothing I do believe him! Now it is up to me to be able to keep my gaurd up when she comes home! because she is going to be twice as bad because she has been in paradise for awhile and she has to come back to reality!!!!! Lord give me strength!!!!!