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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 685500" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>So tired, I'm so sorry you are still having to hear this even when she's in another state!</p><p></p><p>I agree with SWOT...she is 39 years old. Nothing is going to change unless and until she is sufficiently miserable enough with her life as it stands today ... to be motivated to change herself.</p><p></p><p>Talking doesn't work. You already know that.</p><p></p><p>So I would go silent and keep my distance. Take care of YOU.</p><p></p><p>She needs to feel the full consequences of her decisions. Protecting her, providing a soft place to land, and cleaning up her messes for her...again...as you well know...doesn't create any change in her.</p><p></p><p>We change when we are completely sick and tired of our current situation. So...the idea is for us to "let them" get completely sick and tired, to the point that they are so miserable and so sick of today that they are motivated to change tomorrow.</p><p></p><p>Let her go. Release her to the Universe. Focus on YOU. You deserve peace and joy and serenity and contentment. Letting go of the tail of the tornado is the way to get there.</p><p></p><p>Warm hugs this morning!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 685500, member: 17542"] So tired, I'm so sorry you are still having to hear this even when she's in another state! I agree with SWOT...she is 39 years old. Nothing is going to change unless and until she is sufficiently miserable enough with her life as it stands today ... to be motivated to change herself. Talking doesn't work. You already know that. So I would go silent and keep my distance. Take care of YOU. She needs to feel the full consequences of her decisions. Protecting her, providing a soft place to land, and cleaning up her messes for her...again...as you well know...doesn't create any change in her. We change when we are completely sick and tired of our current situation. So...the idea is for us to "let them" get completely sick and tired, to the point that they are so miserable and so sick of today that they are motivated to change tomorrow. Let her go. Release her to the Universe. Focus on YOU. You deserve peace and joy and serenity and contentment. Letting go of the tail of the tornado is the way to get there. Warm hugs this morning! [/QUOTE]
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