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<blockquote data-quote="sooooo tired" data-source="post: 685755" data-attributes="member: 18764"><p>I have not spoken to my daughter since she has been in florida. According to my other daughter, she is coming back home. This is where I have my problem....I feel guilty for not keeping in touch, but I really don't want to talk to her. But this is what she will do....she will eventually call and try to make me feel guilty because I didn't call her and I must not care about her and she will tell me that she wishes she had a mom that she could talk to!! And she will tell me I can't handle anything, and her friends are way more supportive of her than I am, and its nice that I can not talk to her but I can talk to my other daughter. I just never have any good responses, so I end up feeling defeated and guilty! I want to be a strong person and know exactly what to say to her that will let her know Im not feeding into this drama anymore! But when she calls I get all nervous and upset and usually end up in tears. I need help to change the way I deal with her!! What is funny is she wants to make me feel like a bad mom, yet she has a 12 year old daughter that she never sees, and didn't think twice about leaving her 4 year old behind and going to Florida!! But if I say anything she always has answers, and excuses,or just tells me off!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sooooo tired, post: 685755, member: 18764"] I have not spoken to my daughter since she has been in florida. According to my other daughter, she is coming back home. This is where I have my problem....I feel guilty for not keeping in touch, but I really don't want to talk to her. But this is what she will do....she will eventually call and try to make me feel guilty because I didn't call her and I must not care about her and she will tell me that she wishes she had a mom that she could talk to!! And she will tell me I can't handle anything, and her friends are way more supportive of her than I am, and its nice that I can not talk to her but I can talk to my other daughter. I just never have any good responses, so I end up feeling defeated and guilty! I want to be a strong person and know exactly what to say to her that will let her know Im not feeding into this drama anymore! But when she calls I get all nervous and upset and usually end up in tears. I need help to change the way I deal with her!! What is funny is she wants to make me feel like a bad mom, yet she has a 12 year old daughter that she never sees, and didn't think twice about leaving her 4 year old behind and going to Florida!! But if I say anything she always has answers, and excuses,or just tells me off! [/QUOTE]
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