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<blockquote data-quote="JMom" data-source="post: 686048" data-attributes="member: 19892"><p>You deserve to be loved and at peace. I know you love her, I can feel the hurt in your post. I know you want the best for her and your grands.</p><p></p><p>You will be doing her a disservice to help. You will not be there forever and she will need coping skills and survival skills when you're gone from this earthy world. Better foe her to figure it out before she's left without you.</p><p></p><p>Remove the safety net. Trust my experience, sometimes it gets a lot worse without us in the beginning but it's rewarding to watch them grow, mature and figure things out on their own. Her good friends will cut her off as well when they get tired of the abuse that will shift to them.</p><p></p><p>Take care of you. Take a bubble bath, read a book, take a walk, watch birds, plant flowers, a garden, go swimming. ...anything that YOU enjoy. Your health and well being is something YOU can control. I learned how to sew. Made baby blankets for coworkers. They're not perfect, but it gave me peace and I had the joy of giving. </p><p></p><p>My son became homeless when I quit engaging but he's figured it out on his own and is more grateful now. Lots of apologies came my way after 3 months of living on the streets. He's figuring it out. At least I know if I die, he can survive and he knows if I die it wasn't because he made me suffer so much. Hang in there!</p><p>♡Jmom</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JMom, post: 686048, member: 19892"] You deserve to be loved and at peace. I know you love her, I can feel the hurt in your post. I know you want the best for her and your grands. You will be doing her a disservice to help. You will not be there forever and she will need coping skills and survival skills when you're gone from this earthy world. Better foe her to figure it out before she's left without you. Remove the safety net. Trust my experience, sometimes it gets a lot worse without us in the beginning but it's rewarding to watch them grow, mature and figure things out on their own. Her good friends will cut her off as well when they get tired of the abuse that will shift to them. Take care of you. Take a bubble bath, read a book, take a walk, watch birds, plant flowers, a garden, go swimming. ...anything that YOU enjoy. Your health and well being is something YOU can control. I learned how to sew. Made baby blankets for coworkers. They're not perfect, but it gave me peace and I had the joy of giving. My son became homeless when I quit engaging but he's figured it out on his own and is more grateful now. Lots of apologies came my way after 3 months of living on the streets. He's figuring it out. At least I know if I die, he can survive and he knows if I die it wasn't because he made me suffer so much. Hang in there! ♡Jmom [/QUOTE]
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