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For those who have gone through custody battles *sigh*
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 658169" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>This is spot on. He has to make sure that they understand why the disruption of staying in school, (summer break? hard sell) near extended family, <em>staying with a father who is a better, more calm communicator </em>(especially this) is more in the interest of the child than keeping the child with her and her new family ("god bless them, I'm sure they're wonderful people") and taking him away from everything he knows. <em>And</em> somehow he has to do this in a calm reasonable way. It's all about him not letting her push his buttons. Never<em> ever</em> let anyone see him get angry or hurt or upset by her actions. Keep his eye on the prize - his son's well being.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 658169, member: 99"] This is spot on. He has to make sure that they understand why the disruption of staying in school, (summer break? hard sell) near extended family, [I]staying with a father who is a better, more calm communicator [/I](especially this) is more in the interest of the child than keeping the child with her and her new family ("god bless them, I'm sure they're wonderful people") and taking him away from everything he knows. [I]And[/I] somehow he has to do this in a calm reasonable way. It's all about him not letting her push his buttons. Never[I] ever[/I] let anyone see him get angry or hurt or upset by her actions. Keep his eye on the prize - his son's well being. [/QUOTE]
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