Lately I am more concerned with husband than with difficult child. I am not sure what is up with him, so I thought I would see if anyone here has any ideas. husband goes to psychiatrist thursday night. For the last 2 weeks or so husband has been very irritable. I am wondering if his medications need adjusted. He has also been getting tired before, not after he takes his medications. It started that he would get really tired and his eyes would change about 5 or 6pm, and now it is as early as 2 or 3pm. I wish I could describe the eyes, but the way he looks just changes, and he almost looks kinda paranoid/sketchy. I have never gone to husband's psychiatrist appts with him. I write notes for husband to take, as he forgets so much of what he wants to bring up. Today he said I could just go with him on Thursday. I am not sure how I feel about that. It almost feels like I would be intruding on something private. I asked husband if he would rather I write a note for psychiatrist, and husband said that would be ok. Now I am almost feeling guilty for not agreeing to go. I am torn, and worried about him. Something is up, and I want to do whatever I can to help, but husband cannot really even describe what is wrong. He is just not in touch with himself. He was raised to be a man's man, and I don't think he knows how to describe his feelings sometimes. Sorry this is so long and scattered. If you made it thru this thanks.