I know it doesn't make a difference in mine or difficult child's life anymore, but I found out today that DCF took wingnuts baby away. It seems like so long ago that I thought the baby was his and I was freaking out about it. Now difficult child is over a year clean and in a different relationship. So different then I thought it would turn out when she was pregnant. I thank god everyday that the baby wasn't his. I know his life would be so different right now. I'm sure she is still using and I'm sure he would not have been able to remain clean if he was still with her and the baby was his. I still think it is so sad. I hope the baby gets a second chance at her life and finds a good home with great parents who will give her everything she deserves. It's amazing that even though I don't really care what happens to wingnut, I still care about what happens to her baby. Maybe it's because I realize what the odds were that she wasn't my grandaughter. Life is so bizarre. I guess it's another chapter in my life that has passed.