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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 666986" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Quoting sentences I found relevant in light of FOO issues:<em> </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Hate is not inborn; it has to be constantly cultivated, to be brought into being, in conflict with more or less recognized guilt complexes. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Hate demands existence and he who hates has to show his hate in appropriate actions and behavior; in a sense, he has to become hate.</em></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I liked everything about this quote. In FOO speak, the writer is describing family identity. It isn't enough for them to have enslaved us, not enough for them to have held us in their grips and emptied our brains to fill it with the roles we were hurt into living instead of real lives, instead of our lives. Distortion, disfigurement, destruction of what is real about the past.</p><p></p><p>"What would Cedar do."</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yep. We are educating ourselves, now. No more cowardice at decisive moments, not in our actions, and not in our thinking.</p><p></p><p>Yay.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>True. Takes two to play: One to tell lies, and one to believe them. We don't even have to be present though, as noted in the first quote, eventually the hater will have to fire something off to validate the grandiosity hatred justifies. I do believe grandiosity addiction is at the heart of it, is the reward in it for our sibs. Of course that was the truth in it for our mothers.</p><p></p><p>Who would have expected it in a sibling? It must have to do with the pseudo mom role.</p><p></p><p>Good. I am sick of being her mom.</p><p></p><p>And if I were her mom? We would have a nice, long discussion about lying and liars and people walking with the Lord to justify self righteous fanaticism. (I am so name calling, today. I suppose I should stop that.)</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>It does.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 666986, member: 17461"] Quoting sentences I found relevant in light of FOO issues:[I] Hate is not inborn; it has to be constantly cultivated, to be brought into being, in conflict with more or less recognized guilt complexes. Hate demands existence and he who hates has to show his hate in appropriate actions and behavior; in a sense, he has to become hate.[/I] I liked everything about this quote. In FOO speak, the writer is describing family identity. It isn't enough for them to have enslaved us, not enough for them to have held us in their grips and emptied our brains to fill it with the roles we were hurt into living instead of real lives, instead of our lives. Distortion, disfigurement, destruction of what is real about the past. "What would Cedar do." Yep. We are educating ourselves, now. No more cowardice at decisive moments, not in our actions, and not in our thinking. Yay. True. Takes two to play: One to tell lies, and one to believe them. We don't even have to be present though, as noted in the first quote, eventually the hater will have to fire something off to validate the grandiosity hatred justifies. I do believe grandiosity addiction is at the heart of it, is the reward in it for our sibs. Of course that was the truth in it for our mothers. Who would have expected it in a sibling? It must have to do with the pseudo mom role. Good. I am sick of being her mom. And if I were her mom? We would have a nice, long discussion about lying and liars and people walking with the Lord to justify self righteous fanaticism. (I am so name calling, today. I suppose I should stop that.) It does. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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