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Fraternal Twin with conduct disorder, just devastated
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 693771" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>hon, I am so sorry...cant even put it into words. I wish I had advice beyond going to therapy maybe to help you cope. May I gently ask what happened three years ago? Anything?</p><p></p><p>it is very important for us to take care of ourselves when bad things happen. You also have an obligation to your other daughter. You can't help your other daughter now or maybe ever, but you can make new memories with your daughter who still lives at home and any other loved ones in your home or heart. And you need to love yourself...you did not cause this. She certainly may have inherited personality traits from your ex...you could not have stopped that.</p><p></p><p>I had a son me and ex husband adopted at age six. He walked out of our family (except for ex) after marrying in my opinion a woman who wanted no other women in his life...not a mom or his sisters. I had to grieve him. The good news is, time passes and things grow more tolerable with time. You let go if you must. You really dont know the end of this story yet so that makes it harder to let go.</p><p></p><p>We are here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 693771, member: 1550"] hon, I am so sorry...cant even put it into words. I wish I had advice beyond going to therapy maybe to help you cope. May I gently ask what happened three years ago? Anything? it is very important for us to take care of ourselves when bad things happen. You also have an obligation to your other daughter. You can't help your other daughter now or maybe ever, but you can make new memories with your daughter who still lives at home and any other loved ones in your home or heart. And you need to love yourself...you did not cause this. She certainly may have inherited personality traits from your ex...you could not have stopped that. I had a son me and ex husband adopted at age six. He walked out of our family (except for ex) after marrying in my opinion a woman who wanted no other women in his life...not a mom or his sisters. I had to grieve him. The good news is, time passes and things grow more tolerable with time. You let go if you must. You really dont know the end of this story yet so that makes it harder to let go. We are here for you. [/QUOTE]
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