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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 728262" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>I am not much of a photo person myself, it destroys the 35 year old picture in my head...........<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite10" alt=":oops:" title="Oops! :oops:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":oops:" /></p><p>Nomie, I am sure you looked just beautiful to your friend. </p><p>We are our own worst critics. </p><p>But, I don't think she should have ignored your requests. </p><p>That's just not nice.</p><p>Okay, she is being a jerk. </p><p>You are right. </p><p>I have a work "friend" who just loves to take candid photos of people (me), when they look their very worst. Then she shows the picture to the person and laughs and says she's keeping it for "collateral". She missed her calling and should have been a tabloid photographer. </p><p>I tell her she is a jerk, and she just laughs. </p><p>I don't know why people do stuff like this.</p><p>My friend is fun to talk with, she is quick witted, but because of this candid photo thingee, I kind of don't trust her. I tell her that, too. What kind of person wants to have photos of friends looking their very worst? </p><p>Surprise of all surprises, her phone broke and she doesn't have her "collateral" shots anymore. </p><p>Ahh, revenge is sweet.</p><p>I think not answering her text might give your friend the hint that you are not pleased with her actions.</p><p>If she is a good friend who has slipped up (which we all do) <em>maybe feeling a bit sassy with her new look?</em>, but her friendship is worth keeping, I would wait a bit and when you are ready, let her know how you feel. </p><p>I am glad you are on the mend and tapering off prednisone. </p><p>Man that stuff can mess a body up.</p><p></p><p>I understand your feelings about avoiding photos when you feel you are not looking your best. </p><p>I wish your friend had listened.</p><p>It is almost like the mean girls in high school all over again.</p><p>Who needs that?</p><p>Ugh.</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 728262, member: 19522"] I am not much of a photo person myself, it destroys the 35 year old picture in my head...........:oops: Nomie, I am sure you looked just beautiful to your friend. We are our own worst critics. But, I don't think she should have ignored your requests. That's just not nice. Okay, she is being a jerk. You are right. I have a work "friend" who just loves to take candid photos of people (me), when they look their very worst. Then she shows the picture to the person and laughs and says she's keeping it for "collateral". She missed her calling and should have been a tabloid photographer. I tell her she is a jerk, and she just laughs. I don't know why people do stuff like this. My friend is fun to talk with, she is quick witted, but because of this candid photo thingee, I kind of don't trust her. I tell her that, too. What kind of person wants to have photos of friends looking their very worst? Surprise of all surprises, her phone broke and she doesn't have her "collateral" shots anymore. Ahh, revenge is sweet. I think not answering her text might give your friend the hint that you are not pleased with her actions. If she is a good friend who has slipped up (which we all do) [I]maybe feeling a bit sassy with her new look?[/I], but her friendship is worth keeping, I would wait a bit and when you are ready, let her know how you feel. I am glad you are on the mend and tapering off prednisone. Man that stuff can mess a body up. I understand your feelings about avoiding photos when you feel you are not looking your best. I wish your friend had listened. It is almost like the mean girls in high school all over again. Who needs that? Ugh. (((HUGS))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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