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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 655557" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>That scene could have been my childhood on any night my dad and bro had a conversation after bro turned 12. Except with-o the cops. My bro would just lose it, fly off the handle, say outright crazy awful things and then storm away.</p><p></p><p>Half an hour later the rest of us were reeling from the aftermath and he wanted ice cream and hugs as if nothing happened.</p><p></p><p>I honestly think some of our difficult people blow up and for them it is then done, over, and in the past. If, of course, they got to scream and yell and throw things and explode all over us. Once they have purged all this ugly garbage, they are just fine. they cannot figure out why we are not because after all, <em>they</em> feel all better now. They got it out, and they are over it. they told us how we are wrong, we are to fix what they said is wrong, and they are in happy times. </p><p></p><p>The fact that we are stunned and in shock over the hideously hurtful things they said and did, well, that isn't even on their radar. </p><p></p><p>I honestly think that they don't see us as separate beings, as people with our own thoughts, feelings, and perceptions. We are extensions of them, and as such if they are upset then our worlds are their punching bags, but if they are fine then we cannot have any real problems because they feel fine. I don't think they see us as even close to real people. We are just puppets that revolve around them.</p><p></p><p>Given this, I think his Game of Thrones thing is rational - in HIS REALITY. Not in actual reality but when has actual reality EVER been part of their world?</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry that you are reeling. Give yourself that time to chill, to breathe. </p><p></p><p>You and Jabber are lucky and blessed to have each other. I am glad you have Jabber in your life and that he has you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 655557, member: 1233"] That scene could have been my childhood on any night my dad and bro had a conversation after bro turned 12. Except with-o the cops. My bro would just lose it, fly off the handle, say outright crazy awful things and then storm away. Half an hour later the rest of us were reeling from the aftermath and he wanted ice cream and hugs as if nothing happened. I honestly think some of our difficult people blow up and for them it is then done, over, and in the past. If, of course, they got to scream and yell and throw things and explode all over us. Once they have purged all this ugly garbage, they are just fine. they cannot figure out why we are not because after all, [I]they[/I] feel all better now. They got it out, and they are over it. they told us how we are wrong, we are to fix what they said is wrong, and they are in happy times. The fact that we are stunned and in shock over the hideously hurtful things they said and did, well, that isn't even on their radar. I honestly think that they don't see us as separate beings, as people with our own thoughts, feelings, and perceptions. We are extensions of them, and as such if they are upset then our worlds are their punching bags, but if they are fine then we cannot have any real problems because they feel fine. I don't think they see us as even close to real people. We are just puppets that revolve around them. Given this, I think his Game of Thrones thing is rational - in HIS REALITY. Not in actual reality but when has actual reality EVER been part of their world? I am so sorry that you are reeling. Give yourself that time to chill, to breathe. You and Jabber are lucky and blessed to have each other. I am glad you have Jabber in your life and that he has you. [/QUOTE]
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