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<blockquote data-quote="AllStressedOut" data-source="post: 70610" data-attributes="member: 3837"><p>Still fuming and I've changed the email to her. Yes, when it has to do with my kids, I OBSESS! So if you need to, just ignore me for now, because I'm definately obsessing! And I had to take out school names/his name because you never know who is lurking. I'm always worried bio mom is going to find me here and discover the transfer in schools.</p><p></p><p>Here is the new version:</p><p></p><p>"difficult child's face looked a little puffy this afternoon so I asked him if he had eaten anything that he wasn't supposed to and he said Sean gave him a cupcake and you gave him a capri sun. He also has an upset stomach. I'm puzzled as to how this could happen. I was very specific that he has had allergic reactions to an unknown food, cake was even a food I listed as a possible culprit. I explained he breaks out in hives and his face swells. We even spoke last night about getting the 504 done quickly. In my email I was also very specific that he only eat foods we send and that he even be watched closely in the lunchroom to avoid him sneaking foods. I'm baffled, with all of this communication, some just last night, why he was given a cupcake and capri sun during class today. If his behavioral problems were after consuming this food, his blood sugar level could have attributed to them. While the neuropsychologist may have changed his conduct disorders, the test that showed he is a reactive hypoglycemic is still accurate. I'm trying not to get upset over this, but this is partially why we transferred from (insert old school name here). They too would give him food that we didn't provide as well as didn't watch him closely and he was allowed to sneak food. I honestly feel if this were your child, you would be upset too. This has always seemed to be a huge battle and all I've asked is that he not be given anything I don't send and be watched carefully when in the lunchroom. I have explained to difficult child about his diet and his most recent allergic reactions, but as much as I explain, he would prefer to eat the treat. This is why I was so specific in my email to you. In a previous email from (insert principal name here) she suggested that we not have the 504 meeting this week because of how busy the first week is for the teachers, this is why I suggested dates next week. Until we discover his food allergy and let you know it is okay, please do not give difficult child any food or drink items besides plain water with no flavoring/carbonation. If a goody bag is given, please be sure to check it for candy/gum anything that can be eaten. I will bring you some toy treats to give difficult child for days that others celebrate birthdays with food. If you would prefer for me to make up a goody bag for him, to make it more in line with a birthday celebration, I can do that too. Please understand that I'm just trying to take care of my son and this was such a huge battle at (insert old school name here) that it was upsetting for it to happen at (insert new school name here). If a substitute is present, please be sure they know this about difficult child as well. I just want him to be safe, healthy and happy, when he is with me and at school. Please understand, this is for his health and safety and when he misbehaves he gets into trouble, he really doesn't like being in trouble, so ultimately its for his happiness as well."</p><p></p><p>If you made it through, you deserve a metal. :bravo: Any thoughts on the new version?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AllStressedOut, post: 70610, member: 3837"] Still fuming and I've changed the email to her. Yes, when it has to do with my kids, I OBSESS! So if you need to, just ignore me for now, because I'm definately obsessing! And I had to take out school names/his name because you never know who is lurking. I'm always worried bio mom is going to find me here and discover the transfer in schools. Here is the new version: "difficult child's face looked a little puffy this afternoon so I asked him if he had eaten anything that he wasn't supposed to and he said Sean gave him a cupcake and you gave him a capri sun. He also has an upset stomach. I'm puzzled as to how this could happen. I was very specific that he has had allergic reactions to an unknown food, cake was even a food I listed as a possible culprit. I explained he breaks out in hives and his face swells. We even spoke last night about getting the 504 done quickly. In my email I was also very specific that he only eat foods we send and that he even be watched closely in the lunchroom to avoid him sneaking foods. I'm baffled, with all of this communication, some just last night, why he was given a cupcake and capri sun during class today. If his behavioral problems were after consuming this food, his blood sugar level could have attributed to them. While the neuropsychologist may have changed his conduct disorders, the test that showed he is a reactive hypoglycemic is still accurate. I'm trying not to get upset over this, but this is partially why we transferred from (insert old school name here). They too would give him food that we didn't provide as well as didn't watch him closely and he was allowed to sneak food. I honestly feel if this were your child, you would be upset too. This has always seemed to be a huge battle and all I've asked is that he not be given anything I don't send and be watched carefully when in the lunchroom. I have explained to difficult child about his diet and his most recent allergic reactions, but as much as I explain, he would prefer to eat the treat. This is why I was so specific in my email to you. In a previous email from (insert principal name here) she suggested that we not have the 504 meeting this week because of how busy the first week is for the teachers, this is why I suggested dates next week. Until we discover his food allergy and let you know it is okay, please do not give difficult child any food or drink items besides plain water with no flavoring/carbonation. If a goody bag is given, please be sure to check it for candy/gum anything that can be eaten. I will bring you some toy treats to give difficult child for days that others celebrate birthdays with food. If you would prefer for me to make up a goody bag for him, to make it more in line with a birthday celebration, I can do that too. Please understand that I'm just trying to take care of my son and this was such a huge battle at (insert old school name here) that it was upsetting for it to happen at (insert new school name here). If a substitute is present, please be sure they know this about difficult child as well. I just want him to be safe, healthy and happy, when he is with me and at school. Please understand, this is for his health and safety and when he misbehaves he gets into trouble, he really doesn't like being in trouble, so ultimately its for his happiness as well." If you made it through, you deserve a metal. [img]:bravo:[/img] Any thoughts on the new version? [/QUOTE]
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