We went to dinner Friday, husband suggestion just to see how mother in law would do with her Dad and the girls and us... to see how GreatGrandpa was really doing. We invited them over to the house after for S'mores. This was all told to them before we met them for dinner. husband was hoping mother in law would have the $*#* to tell her Daddy to stay home. NOPE So he was looking horrible at dinner. He collapsed on a car outside of the restaraunt leaving... still not a big enough sign? So they bring him over anyway!?!? He can barely walk. husband made a couple comments about him not doing well. mother in law was like he is OK. We are just staying out of it at this point... She can do what ever she wants. It is on her. So then she takes the girls last night to give us a *break* we begged them to take it easy... N is getting over this cough. K has not been doing well. NOPE... movies, playgrounds, showing them off to friends, all kinds of running around. N sounds horrible, she is coughing non stop. husband just ran to the store to get some Vapor bath. K is out of it. But I did get her to do her homework from last week. We were supposed to go somewhere for an apt tomorrow night. But I am going to have to go alone now. I am not leaving the girls again this close to the excitement of THanksgiving. I just am so mad. She gets so mad at me and cries and says she gets it. And then this. We are going to talk to our therapist and see if she will see them and talk to them about all of this. About how we are not *faking* K's illness and we are caring parents and not too strict etc... UGH sorry I am just flabbergasted. It is just visibly so bad for both of them. husband has the look of fear on his face. Momma aint happy!