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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 652771" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>You need to do what is best for you. It's hard becuase a funeral is where the family appears to be "united". Outsiders will not see the tension that lies beneath but it's there and when you mix in raw emotion it can take an ugly turn.</p><p>When people are greiving they sometimes say and do things they would not normally do and if there's already a predisposition for dysfunction it can become disasterous.</p><p>The worst thing that can happen if you don't go is sis and bro will talk bad about you. Oh wait, they already are doing that.</p><p>I think it's good that you are sharing your feelings with your dad. I also think it's good that you are giving thought to this before it happens.</p><p>I was very close with both of my parents. My mom has been gone 17 years and my dad has been gone 5. I still miss them both so much. It's a very hard thing to go through.</p><p>I hope your dad has many more years.</p><p>((HUGS)) to you..........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 652771, member: 18516"] You need to do what is best for you. It's hard becuase a funeral is where the family appears to be "united". Outsiders will not see the tension that lies beneath but it's there and when you mix in raw emotion it can take an ugly turn. When people are greiving they sometimes say and do things they would not normally do and if there's already a predisposition for dysfunction it can become disasterous. The worst thing that can happen if you don't go is sis and bro will talk bad about you. Oh wait, they already are doing that. I think it's good that you are sharing your feelings with your dad. I also think it's good that you are giving thought to this before it happens. I was very close with both of my parents. My mom has been gone 17 years and my dad has been gone 5. I still miss them both so much. It's a very hard thing to go through. I hope your dad has many more years. ((HUGS)) to you.......... [/QUOTE]
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