He just WON'T listen! I ask him over and over (literally hundreds of times!!) to PLEASE not do certain things. Don't climb on the counters, don't use my furniture for a playground, there's no need to have the TV volume on 58 (his hearing is fine I had it checked) and he always says "ok" but then goes right back to doing what I asked him not to do 10-20 mintues later, or the next day. What the hell!? He's 8 years old. I know he knows the rules. I even wrote him a note and stuck it in his room as a reminder and he still disregards. I asked him why and he says he doesn't know. Come on, dude!! Is this part of ADHD or just a defiance problem?? I still insist that he's ODD and Learning Disability (LD) just like the neuro psychiatric evaluation said. Counsellor says ADHD. I don't know WTF to think anymore... it's not like i'm asking too much.