Kay sent me an abusive text in response to a first one asking me why no birthday present came for her. I wrote back that she said I wasnt her mother and that she was cutting me out of her life so as somebody not related to her I didnt send anything. Yes, maybe it was childish of me but it hurt so much that she wrote that that i i wasnt in the mood to shop for a gift and I never send her money. So I got the expected nasty text back full of gaslighting that made me doubt my sanity. Yes it was the dreaded gaslighting. Not verbatim. Much cussing I left out. "I never told you that you werent my mother. You made that up so that you didnt have to buy me a birthday present! What is wrong with you to think I'd write that? Maybe ylou should go for mental healthcare. I just said I needed some space from you so I could spread my messages on vaccinations, healthcare and cancer to the world. I cant be contacting you so much anymore. I am busy!" (Busy. Heh. She doesn't work or clean her house or cook much but she does post anti vaccination and alternative medicine, such as not needing chemo for cancer and how measles is a mild illness videos all over the place. So to her she is busy.) "l educate people!" Thats her job I guess. I have her old text saying that I am not her mother, I am toxic to her and we shouldn't talk anymore. Ever. She can lie well and doesn't remember what she said. I still didnt get her a present. Her birthday was two days ago. I cant motivate myself to do it. I am so depleted by her and tired of the lies.