Bad memories flooding my mind tonight after I tried to drop off my daughter at my exes' house. He wasn't home & she isn't allowed a key. To protect me, all our conversations by text or email are monitored by a counselor. I simply sent a text that she & I were at his house & we would wait 5 minutes & if he didn't show up he could pick her up at my house. (Which is 1 block away.) this started WW3 & I've now been accused of being a liar, thief, & terrible mother via text. This is the same man that called the state board of nursing & told them I divert drugs & am an addict. ( Because his girlfriend was convicted of obtaining drugs by forgery & deceit& possession of Schedule 1 & 2 narcotics & lost her job.) she is living with him & he knew this would hurt his chances of getting custody of my daughter, so he thought if he could accuse me of the same thing, it would even the playing field. Obviously it didn't work & I was cleared by the board. Anyway, I have tried & tried to get along with this man for my daughters' sake. Despite everything he's done, he's still her dad & I know the kids need both parents. Don't know how much longer I can deal with this though. The counselor can't even deal With him. Trying to get through this, while worrying about my sons' hearing in the morning. Too much!