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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 707091" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My first thought is to make sure its true. Have her take a test in front of you. You cant take her word...could be a ploy to get money or housing. Sadly, adults like this can not be trusted with anything. They lie even about big issues. She can always tell you she miscarried if she isnt pregnant. Be sure.</p><p></p><p>Secondly, unless you want to legally try to get custody and will fight for it, if its true, you may want to try to talk to her about adoption. We cherish our adopted blessings in our home. They had a stable life. They are great young adults. Your daughter is not able to care for a baby and if she doesnt give you or another custody, she can pull that grandchild from your safe arms at any time. If she drinks or does drugs during a pregnancy, the baby's brain will also have drugs in it as it developes. The baby will have issues. Could be very extreme.</p><p></p><p>You dont have to drink a lot to give Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. My auristic son is adopted...birthmother was a hige addict. He was born with crack in him snd syphillis. We are all lucky that high functioning autism is his worst after affect.</p><p></p><p>Hugs. This is a nightmare.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 707091, member: 1550"] My first thought is to make sure its true. Have her take a test in front of you. You cant take her word...could be a ploy to get money or housing. Sadly, adults like this can not be trusted with anything. They lie even about big issues. She can always tell you she miscarried if she isnt pregnant. Be sure. Secondly, unless you want to legally try to get custody and will fight for it, if its true, you may want to try to talk to her about adoption. We cherish our adopted blessings in our home. They had a stable life. They are great young adults. Your daughter is not able to care for a baby and if she doesnt give you or another custody, she can pull that grandchild from your safe arms at any time. If she drinks or does drugs during a pregnancy, the baby's brain will also have drugs in it as it developes. The baby will have issues. Could be very extreme. You dont have to drink a lot to give Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. My auristic son is adopted...birthmother was a hige addict. He was born with crack in him snd syphillis. We are all lucky that high functioning autism is his worst after affect. Hugs. This is a nightmare. [/QUOTE]
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