My 7 yo daughter flat out refused to get out of the car and go to school this morning because she did not like the out fit I picked for her, and refused to pick one herself. We had a HUGE fight, I tried to stand firm, and she was more stubborn than I....I feel sooooo exhausted from the battles, and at a loss as to what to do with her. I just want to LOVE her, and I cant even like her sometimes, what happened to my sweet little girl? Finally her stepdad came and out of fear of the consequence he would give her, she finally complied and went to school an HOUR late...which made me 2 hours late to work! Any suggestions on how to get my defiant child out of bed, dressed, and at school on time?