I am really sorry for all the "mega" posts but "darn it" I am running out of patience and appropriate parenting input. Yes, I "know" the girlfriend is monitoring my posts and I don't give a xxxx. Yesterday I found an awesome home purchase possibility. girlfriend is "unsettled" (my word not easy child/difficult child's) because she does not want ME to be in control. OMG...today I find out that she was stoned and doesn't remember that the kitchen has a "pantry". "It does???", says the girlfriend. I don't remember that. For those of you who have been my friends for over a decade..........I x'ing can't believe how messed up this is! Call it a whine. Call it whatever you want to call it. MY KID (yeah, the one with the titanium plate in his head) is greatly attached to an ignorant, pot smoking low life! YIKES! DDD Yeah, I know this is going to cause flack but I don't give a Rat's. It's like watching a MAJOR train wreck from a few feet away. Sorry but I just have to vent!