She wants to take her sister out for ice cream She didn't ask, she just stated "I want to take **** out for ice cream after school this week" Not sure how I feel, I don't want to keep her from her sister but I don't know if I trust her. She hasn't asked once all summer about her sister or at all since she's left. She's the one that told me to stay out of her life. This is not what I want but I was finally trying to move on, the best way I can, I guess. I just stopped crying everyday recently over this nightmare and was starting to get more control over my life, learning to accept that my oldest wasn't going to be a part of my life. Her choice. I've tried reaching out to her but she just comes back with how she doesn't want me to contact her. A few weeks ago I asked if she wanted to talk and she replied: Her: I told you not to contact me. Me: ok, I can't believe the person you turned out to be. Her: I can't believe you stole my car. And had your husband shove me. But s**** happens. peace out Anyway, because of her utter disrespect. Lies and immaturity I am just not sure what to do. I need to talk to my husband but I doubt he will allow her to see our other daughter. Thoughts? Advice? She also claimed on her last email that my husband shoved her, not true, that sealed the deal for him. I don't know if he'll ever talk to her again, that accusation really hurt him. He would have five anything for her.