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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 633937" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oh, honey, don't feel guilty. You've done all you can and it hasn't helped. He doesn't call you because our difficult children, for the most part, never call unless we are handing out money. They aren't interested in our lives or having normal adult relationships with us...they just contact us when we offer to give them something. This is legendary difficult child behavior. They gravitate to the next wallet so that they can freeload off of somebody else. Just be prepared to stand firm. His dad will get sick of him soon enough and toss him out too, when he really learns what he's like. Those who still feel guilty have their own walks to take and things will get better for them if they want them to. It's up to them and it's a process, as you know. WE have to hit rock bottom too before we can feel comfortable detaching sometimes. Everyone is different.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 633937, member: 1550"] Oh, honey, don't feel guilty. You've done all you can and it hasn't helped. He doesn't call you because our difficult children, for the most part, never call unless we are handing out money. They aren't interested in our lives or having normal adult relationships with us...they just contact us when we offer to give them something. This is legendary difficult child behavior. They gravitate to the next wallet so that they can freeload off of somebody else. Just be prepared to stand firm. His dad will get sick of him soon enough and toss him out too, when he really learns what he's like. Those who still feel guilty have their own walks to take and things will get better for them if they want them to. It's up to them and it's a process, as you know. WE have to hit rock bottom too before we can feel comfortable detaching sometimes. Everyone is different. Hugs for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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