Granddaughter now wants to leave rehab after 2 days!

ksm

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I took her there Thursday afternoon at 3pm. By Friday she texted she didn't think it was the place for her. By Saturday she texted she wanted to come home. She said she was sick and throwing up and no one was checking on her.

But, she was using before she went there, and I assume she is detoxing. She doesn't like the facility, they have "to work" !! She said there are horses on the property and they take care of the horses, but not allowed to ride them. (I'm sure that's a liability issue) But caring for horses should be a benefit. And they "had to move some things around in the yard".

Also, the women prepare their meals and help clean up. How dare they!! How awful is that?? As I prepare meals every day and no one really helps me!

The last text she sent me was "f**k U". My last text to her was:

"I didn't call the rehab. But you need to find out if leaving the facility breaks the terms of your diversion. You were looking at jail times and a felony on your record. I don't know the best way to handle this. You are free to do as you choose, but there may be consequences you aren't aware of yet. That is why I suggested talking to your diversion officer first."

It's going to be a bumpy ride. Ksm
 

MommaTried24

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So sorry you are in this situation with her. You did good in what you told her. My son went through a 28 day rehab in KY about 8 years ago as a diversion to jail and made it about two months in a halfway house and then left. When he got back to TN, he was arrested and did the 5 1/2 months that was on the shelf. I'd say she will go to jail. The place you took her to sounds wonderful with the horses. God forbid she has to prepare meals? It's typical. My son is lazy too and thinks he's too good to do certain things. It just blows my mind.

Hang tough Ksm! I'm praying she's just detoxing and she will stay there!
 

Copabanana

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I agree. I think what you wrote is perfect. Her life is hers. She can choose. She has been choosing all along.
If she is jailed, or goes to prison, I hope she knows she must sign over legal custody for your great grandson. It's enough already making him (and you) pay for her poor choices and her fantasies of complete control.
 

Kalahou

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Dear Ksm,
Following along with you, In my opinion, Jail is not the worst possibility here. In my own situation, I feel incarceration was a rescue for my son. You are in love , thoughts, prayers.
 

ksm

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She's still there at the rehab...I don't know if she spoke to her diversion officer or not. I have jot contacted him, but I would live to know what happens if she leaves before her time is up. She did a video chat last night with her son. She sounded better. But, she still isn't sure she wants to stay there. She said yesterday that the sheriff and drug sniffing dogs went thru the building while everyone waited outside. The dog signaled on the room she shares, and specifically her bed. But nothing was found. Now she thinks the other women will not want to be associated with her.

My theory is, since she was bingimg for several days, and then came home the day before she left for rehab. She took a big arm load of dirty clothes from her car and packed them without washing them. I would think a trained dog could smell it.

All her luggage was given to a worker to inspect before c she could take it to her room.

Crossing my fingers. Ksm
 

MommaTried24

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Glad she's still there Ksm. I'd say you're right about her clothes. Praying she stays and God puts one person in her path to make her see her ways. It just takes one person sometimes to make you see yourself. I like calling them suddenlies. 🙏 Thanks for the update too.
 

ksm

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...I call them "God breezes". Like when you gain an insight, or someone says something and it's like a puzzle piece finally fits in right...

I do hope she connects with someone there. Since high school, after she started hanging around with the guy she eventually had my GGS with, she seemed to have lost her friends. And they have had a rocky relationship since she was 14. I think he tried to shut her off from her family and friends.

Ksm
 

MommaTried24

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...I call them "God breezes". Like when you gain an insight, or someone says something and it's like a puzzle piece finally fits in right...
Exactly! I'm praying for our kids to gain an insight and a puzzle piece that finally fits right. Love that analogy too Ksm. I'm wishing you a good day and hoping things start to come together for you and your family with this situation.
 
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