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Great video about adult children and what to do about the problems
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 637190" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>This is pure gold. She is as articulate verbally as she is as a writer. </p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.settingboundariesbooks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Things-to-Stop-Starting-Now.pdf" target="_blank">http://www.settingboundariesbooks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Things-to-Stop-Starting-Now.pdf</a></p><p></p><p>In case the link doesn't work, here is her list of Things To Stop---Starting Now:</p><p></p><p>Things to Stop, Starting Now (Rev. 2/3/14)</p><p></p><p>1. Stop repeating negative enabling behavior in all its forms</p><p>2. Stop ignoring my own personal issues</p><p>3. Stop being alone in my pain</p><p>4. Stop the flow of money — now</p><p>5. Stop pretending things are going to be fine if I continue as I have been</p><p>6. Stop putting off the changes that must be made</p><p>7. Stop my own destructive patterns and behaviors</p><p>8. Stop feeling guilty</p><p>9. Stop demanding that my adult child change</p><p>10.Stop making excuses for his or her negative behaviors and/or choices</p><p>11. Stop engaging in arguments, debates, or negotiations —no verbal volleyball</p><p>12.Stop being a martyr.</p><p></p><p>Simple, straightforward and true. Hard to do. We have to have help---from our toolboxes. Thanks MWM.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 637190, member: 17542"] This is pure gold. She is as articulate verbally as she is as a writer. [url]http://www.settingboundariesbooks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Things-to-Stop-Starting-Now.pdf[/url] In case the link doesn't work, here is her list of Things To Stop---Starting Now: Things to Stop, Starting Now (Rev. 2/3/14) 1. Stop repeating negative enabling behavior in all its forms 2. Stop ignoring my own personal issues 3. Stop being alone in my pain 4. Stop the flow of money — now 5. Stop pretending things are going to be fine if I continue as I have been 6. Stop putting off the changes that must be made 7. Stop my own destructive patterns and behaviors 8. Stop feeling guilty 9. Stop demanding that my adult child change 10.Stop making excuses for his or her negative behaviors and/or choices 11. Stop engaging in arguments, debates, or negotiations —no verbal volleyball 12.Stop being a martyr. Simple, straightforward and true. Hard to do. We have to have help---from our toolboxes. Thanks MWM. [/QUOTE]
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