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<blockquote data-quote="gottaloveem" data-source="post: 11096" data-attributes="member: 1953"><p>Linda,</p><p>I am so sorry about your mom. I haven't been around on the board much, we were busy with the store during x-mas, then hubby and I went on a cruise. So I am just getting back to reality.</p><p></p><p>It will be 9 months tomorrow that Alex died. I know that I was in shock for most of this time. The shock has been wearing off the last couple of months. I have days that I am very sad and some days that are OK. It's only been recently that I thought I should go to a grief counselor. I have a video of Alex that is on the internet. I do watch it sometimes. I do go to his myspace account almost every day. It's a strange thing this grief thing.</p><p></p><p>I went to a group for parents who have lost children, The Compassionte Friends. Somebody said that when she died and saw her son again, if her son asked her what she has been doing all this time, she didn't want to say grieving for you.</p><p></p><p>I do function on a daily basis. My bad days are just as bad as the day he died. They don't happen as much. Lately though I have had too many bad days. I have learned to enjoy the good days and consider them a blessing.</p><p></p><p>I will be thinking of you and your family.</p><p></p><p>Take Care.</p><p></p><p>Lia</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gottaloveem, post: 11096, member: 1953"] Linda, I am so sorry about your mom. I haven't been around on the board much, we were busy with the store during x-mas, then hubby and I went on a cruise. So I am just getting back to reality. It will be 9 months tomorrow that Alex died. I know that I was in shock for most of this time. The shock has been wearing off the last couple of months. I have days that I am very sad and some days that are OK. It's only been recently that I thought I should go to a grief counselor. I have a video of Alex that is on the internet. I do watch it sometimes. I do go to his myspace account almost every day. It's a strange thing this grief thing. I went to a group for parents who have lost children, The Compassionte Friends. Somebody said that when she died and saw her son again, if her son asked her what she has been doing all this time, she didn't want to say grieving for you. I do function on a daily basis. My bad days are just as bad as the day he died. They don't happen as much. Lately though I have had too many bad days. I have learned to enjoy the good days and consider them a blessing. I will be thinking of you and your family. Take Care. Lia [/QUOTE]
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