Ladies, I may have to kill him. My husband, that is. My student loan refund came in today and I went to the bank to cash it. Teller asks me if I'm aware that my house payment for April has not been paid? I said no, I wasn't aware. Take it out of the check I'm cashing. husband did not make April's house payment. He didn't pay the trash bill. He didn't pay the electric until it was shut off. He didn't pay the phone until it was nearly shut off. Last month we went 3 days without car insurance because he didn't make the payment. Obviously, husband is up to his old tricks of not paying bills and keeping the cash for himself while telling me bills are paid and we have no money. Last time I bought groceries was 7 wks ago, other than the meat I demanded husband pick up the other day. Those groceries were paid for by my last student loan refund! He's home from work. Time for hades to break loose.