A difficult child in jail till February. difficult child#2 was on probation (long story: some of you will remember - wife said he elbowed her in the eye by accident; then was mad about something else so called the cops and said it was on purpose; then changed her story again and admitted it was an accident but it was too late to have charges dropped then). He refused to comply' didn't go to AA or NA, didn't go to rehab, etc., etc., etc. So his probation was revoked. I have no problem with that; natural consequences....it's about time he learned them. BUT, with three little kids, ages barely 4, 2 1/2, and 2 months, I think it's more punishment for her than for him. So it looks like grandma will be doing lots more babysitting. Really, not my favorite thing. They just can't keep from skrewing themselves and everybody around them, can they?