Guilty Mom I desperately need help with detachment. Our 32 year old son has been an addict since age 16. Our family has been through hell. His diagnosis is Schizoaffective Disorder Bipolar type. Can get jobs but falls off the wagon and gets fired. He got his first check and we haven’t seen him in 4 days. Meaning he has missed 4 doses of medications. We are so tired of his life and how we have enabled him. So my question is how do you kick your son out of house when he has a mental illness and substance addiction? Would really appreciate your feedback. Thank you.