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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 628655" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Thank you, Cedar. A very thoughtful and helpful response. I too have been in that horrible place, where you are jealous of others. My friends who have multiple high achieving pcs. At worst, I am quiet....would never be unkind. I feel very badly for this woman and do have empathy for her. Surely, she is hurting. Hurt people, hurt people....unless they get help.</p><p></p><p>But, I did not want it to ruin my weekend. And it was obvious, she distresses her co workers. I am haunted by the co worker who quit. It was a very bad situation....trust me. And now this woman (the co worker who quit over it) is sick. My tech, a quiet, shy woman, had a visceral reaction when she realized I understood most of what L said. And it is wrong for me, a long time, polite, steady customer, to be disrespected.</p><p></p><p>I just walked into the shop and asked to speak to the owner outside.</p><p>She already knew that L does this. She said that now L seems to be talking negatively about her. She said I'm not the first to complain. She apologized that she hasn't done something sooner. She said she had personal problems to attend to and put it off. She said she wasn't at liberty to talk about it in detail, but was working on it and hoped to "fix" the problem in two weeks..maybe slightly more. She also admitted that L was a very unkind, sarcastic person.</p><p></p><p>I said that a change in two weeks or so brought me some comfort.... I told her I had thought long and hard about coming in and thought about all the angles and even feel badly for L, but it is profoundly inappropriate and disrespectful.</p><p></p><p>She thanked me and said it would be taken care of.</p><p></p><p>So, we'll see what 2-3 weeks brings. She also said to never book an appointment with her. I said that goes without saying.</p><p></p><p>I wonder what the change will be. What a sad situation. I do thing if L stays and she continues to be rude, I'll begin the process of looking for another shop.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad I spoke up. Very hard decision, but I believe the right one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 628655, member: 4152"] Thank you, Cedar. A very thoughtful and helpful response. I too have been in that horrible place, where you are jealous of others. My friends who have multiple high achieving pcs. At worst, I am quiet....would never be unkind. I feel very badly for this woman and do have empathy for her. Surely, she is hurting. Hurt people, hurt people....unless they get help. But, I did not want it to ruin my weekend. And it was obvious, she distresses her co workers. I am haunted by the co worker who quit. It was a very bad situation....trust me. And now this woman (the co worker who quit over it) is sick. My tech, a quiet, shy woman, had a visceral reaction when she realized I understood most of what L said. And it is wrong for me, a long time, polite, steady customer, to be disrespected. I just walked into the shop and asked to speak to the owner outside. She already knew that L does this. She said that now L seems to be talking negatively about her. She said I'm not the first to complain. She apologized that she hasn't done something sooner. She said she had personal problems to attend to and put it off. She said she wasn't at liberty to talk about it in detail, but was working on it and hoped to "fix" the problem in two weeks..maybe slightly more. She also admitted that L was a very unkind, sarcastic person. I said that a change in two weeks or so brought me some comfort.... I told her I had thought long and hard about coming in and thought about all the angles and even feel badly for L, but it is profoundly inappropriate and disrespectful. She thanked me and said it would be taken care of. So, we'll see what 2-3 weeks brings. She also said to never book an appointment with her. I said that goes without saying. I wonder what the change will be. What a sad situation. I do thing if L stays and she continues to be rude, I'll begin the process of looking for another shop. I'm glad I spoke up. Very hard decision, but I believe the right one. [/QUOTE]
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