I am not vain, but one thing I make sure of is that nobody ever sees me gray. Even I never have. I use brown coloring usually tinted red. I don't think my hair is a pretty white. It is probably just gray.... Also I wear a simple hairstyle....inches below my shoulders and straight. I have bangs. I haven't worn makeup probably for a few decades. I never did like make up. Glasses cover my eyes anyway. My wardrobe is casual....jeans leggings sweats....t shirts, flannel shirts, some cammo (the official design of Wisconsin) etc. Packers sweat shirts. Save the Animals shirts. Athletic shoes. Short white socks always soft. I favor soft, lucious material that caresses skin. When I tried on mother of the bride dresses it was the first time I saw me in a dress for a long time. Funny, my girls both dress down much like me. Like mother/ like daughters. Your turn.