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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 736455" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi lbl.</p><p></p><p>You sound as if you are either holding your breath or talking through clenched teeth. Or both.</p><p></p><p>I am very glad Evan will soon go back. Because this cannot, should not be about your holding the line. Which is what he is doing. By acting out.</p><p></p><p>It is easy for me to say. But I would bring this forward to his counselor, so that he is forced to confront and take responsibility for his transgression of boundaries.</p><p></p><p>My own son, a decade older, does this. He crosses boundaries, and then says. Oh. I will accept the consequences.</p><p></p><p>J. You are 29. Not 9. It is about acting right. In the first place. Nobody wants you to suffer. Nor do I want do punish you like you are a tot on a time out.</p><p></p><p>Except I get that I am the one who is still stepping up to play this game.</p><p></p><p>Lbl. With e going back tonight, you can rest and get your energy back to you and healing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 736455, member: 18958"] Hi lbl. You sound as if you are either holding your breath or talking through clenched teeth. Or both. I am very glad Evan will soon go back. Because this cannot, should not be about your holding the line. Which is what he is doing. By acting out. It is easy for me to say. But I would bring this forward to his counselor, so that he is forced to confront and take responsibility for his transgression of boundaries. My own son, a decade older, does this. He crosses boundaries, and then says. Oh. I will accept the consequences. J. You are 29. Not 9. It is about acting right. In the first place. Nobody wants you to suffer. Nor do I want do punish you like you are a tot on a time out. Except I get that I am the one who is still stepping up to play this game. Lbl. With e going back tonight, you can rest and get your energy back to you and healing. [/QUOTE]
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