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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 726198" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>I hear you loud and clear about only letting relationships in my life that are compassionate and kind. And I do distance myself from my daughter when she is mean. When I distance myself from my daughter and she is highly manic she demands I talk with her. She will bust into my home and confront me with what ever or constantly call. I will tell her I am on break from her, she goes balistic and will not leave me alone. My mother in law was the same way, she would be horribly ugly to me and then call me all inappropriate hours, early in the morning and late at night and want to argue with me. This is so draining. It is almost like they want a fight and will not give you peace until you fight with them. I go into IGNORE because I know all I will get is belligerent mania. I know that I have to work on my strength to say Get out of my house or unplug my phone but it is so not my nature, but I have to start to protect myself. It is almost like she demands I fight with her and she is a dirty fighter. I can not go into my retirement years with this dirty fighter. This is the year I learn strong boundries. I would much rather spend time loving and laughing instead of placing boundries to protect myself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 726198, member: 22416"] I hear you loud and clear about only letting relationships in my life that are compassionate and kind. And I do distance myself from my daughter when she is mean. When I distance myself from my daughter and she is highly manic she demands I talk with her. She will bust into my home and confront me with what ever or constantly call. I will tell her I am on break from her, she goes balistic and will not leave me alone. My mother in law was the same way, she would be horribly ugly to me and then call me all inappropriate hours, early in the morning and late at night and want to argue with me. This is so draining. It is almost like they want a fight and will not give you peace until you fight with them. I go into IGNORE because I know all I will get is belligerent mania. I know that I have to work on my strength to say Get out of my house or unplug my phone but it is so not my nature, but I have to start to protect myself. It is almost like she demands I fight with her and she is a dirty fighter. I can not go into my retirement years with this dirty fighter. This is the year I learn strong boundries. I would much rather spend time loving and laughing instead of placing boundries to protect myself. [/QUOTE]
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