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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 726200" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Recoveringenabler, I feel each and everyone of your words and I am working towards living them. My husband will support me, he does not like our daughter at all. His nature is very kind so being more aggressive will be a hard step for him, he usually just ignores her and is so tired and done with her. I know that I have to change to make the changes but I am so tired of the battle all the time but in reality I have to make the changes because she will not change. Actually I have made many changes but it is like she is one step above with more steps and I have to keep making stronger and more boundries. It's like being in a house and trying to keep the robbers out, lock the doors, check the windows, get ammunition ready etc etc. I feel like it is that on a constant level, contantly trying to protect myself. I am tried, very tried, I want so much to spend my days laughing, loving, doing fun things and having a clear mind to enjoy these things.. I feel as if I am haunted by my deceased mother in law through my daughter. So much of the same awful behaviors and then stalking me. I know it is all up to me to make it calm down and I feel so beat down and tired. I am fighting depression from this last bout of PTSD from being around her. I know things will have to get real ugly before they can get better but I am so wore out to get into the ugly. Thank you again for your wonderful words, I know they are truth because I have said them to myself and to read them written out gives me the push I need. You speak from experience and a great deal of pain. Thank you friend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 726200, member: 22416"] Recoveringenabler, I feel each and everyone of your words and I am working towards living them. My husband will support me, he does not like our daughter at all. His nature is very kind so being more aggressive will be a hard step for him, he usually just ignores her and is so tired and done with her. I know that I have to change to make the changes but I am so tired of the battle all the time but in reality I have to make the changes because she will not change. Actually I have made many changes but it is like she is one step above with more steps and I have to keep making stronger and more boundries. It's like being in a house and trying to keep the robbers out, lock the doors, check the windows, get ammunition ready etc etc. I feel like it is that on a constant level, contantly trying to protect myself. I am tried, very tried, I want so much to spend my days laughing, loving, doing fun things and having a clear mind to enjoy these things.. I feel as if I am haunted by my deceased mother in law through my daughter. So much of the same awful behaviors and then stalking me. I know it is all up to me to make it calm down and I feel so beat down and tired. I am fighting depression from this last bout of PTSD from being around her. I know things will have to get real ugly before they can get better but I am so wore out to get into the ugly. Thank you again for your wonderful words, I know they are truth because I have said them to myself and to read them written out gives me the push I need. You speak from experience and a great deal of pain. Thank you friend. [/QUOTE]
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