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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 726236" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>I agee with you SWOT, it is against the law and I will not stand for it ever again. I've already talked with her about it, several times.</em></p><p><em>Tanya, You sure have been through the mill with your son. I remember my daughter calling me saying she needs $115.00 for a therapy visit. I asked for the phone number and address to the therapist. I called the number and the woman working there said the therapist is no longer in the building and has not been there for a while. I said 'oh my daughter wanted to rip me off again, and then this woman that just happened to be on the other line told me she has a very troubled son and he would have pulled something like that and also told me some other ways on how her son tried to rip her off. I do watch my daughter like a hawk when she is at my home. I have to remind my husband to keep an eye on her if I am not there. My husband is known to just get on his computer and ignore her.</em></p><p><em>I enjoy FB because I get to see pictures of my relatives and keep up with their lives. Posts say much more about the poster than what they are posting about. I have noticed that when my daughter posts ugly stuff about me her friends come to my defense and I know that ticks her off even more. For this new year my goal is not not lose my cool with her and talk with her calmly and with strength. Last few months I screamed at the top of my lungs about her financial irresponsibilty, I am ashamed I lost it so bad but I just could not take how stupid things got and how she started to act like the victim after she stole and lied to me.. I know I looked and sounded out of control and I think I was, I think I hit a point that I do not want to be at ever. From now on I will explain what I am going to do, DO IT and not have a fit. I know she lies and steals, the problem is with me, I keep thinking she will grow out of it and that is really DUMB on my part, it is part of me wanting to see the best in everyone and I am so tired of fighting this battle. I knew for sure that when I got to be an old woman my son would make the best decisions on my care. I do not have that now. I have a daughter I cannot trust so I better make sure to take good care of my husband and myself. I live far away from my precious nieces and newphews and the years are coming on fast. I hear stories of parents getting sick and their children wipe them out completely.. I have to do many things to have legal documents in order to protect my husband and myself. I am just plain wore out.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 726236, member: 22416"] [I]I agee with you SWOT, it is against the law and I will not stand for it ever again. I've already talked with her about it, several times. Tanya, You sure have been through the mill with your son. I remember my daughter calling me saying she needs $115.00 for a therapy visit. I asked for the phone number and address to the therapist. I called the number and the woman working there said the therapist is no longer in the building and has not been there for a while. I said 'oh my daughter wanted to rip me off again, and then this woman that just happened to be on the other line told me she has a very troubled son and he would have pulled something like that and also told me some other ways on how her son tried to rip her off. I do watch my daughter like a hawk when she is at my home. I have to remind my husband to keep an eye on her if I am not there. My husband is known to just get on his computer and ignore her. I enjoy FB because I get to see pictures of my relatives and keep up with their lives. Posts say much more about the poster than what they are posting about. I have noticed that when my daughter posts ugly stuff about me her friends come to my defense and I know that ticks her off even more. For this new year my goal is not not lose my cool with her and talk with her calmly and with strength. Last few months I screamed at the top of my lungs about her financial irresponsibilty, I am ashamed I lost it so bad but I just could not take how stupid things got and how she started to act like the victim after she stole and lied to me.. I know I looked and sounded out of control and I think I was, I think I hit a point that I do not want to be at ever. From now on I will explain what I am going to do, DO IT and not have a fit. I know she lies and steals, the problem is with me, I keep thinking she will grow out of it and that is really DUMB on my part, it is part of me wanting to see the best in everyone and I am so tired of fighting this battle. I knew for sure that when I got to be an old woman my son would make the best decisions on my care. I do not have that now. I have a daughter I cannot trust so I better make sure to take good care of my husband and myself. I live far away from my precious nieces and newphews and the years are coming on fast. I hear stories of parents getting sick and their children wipe them out completely.. I have to do many things to have legal documents in order to protect my husband and myself. I am just plain wore out.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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