I'm fairly new here~ some of you may know that I live with a young man that has undiagnosed possible Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)/ odd and who knows what else. Dad and Mom are oblivious to anything being wrong. The young man lives here with me and his dad, my boyfriend. I'm trying to just focus on myself and taking care of what I need to around the house and ignoring his behaviors, for a long time I thought they had to do with me, but now I see they are just a part of who he is and his conditioning by his parents . It was a fairly quiet weekend, with him being gone much of the weekend with his friends and his mom last night. She decided to make both of the boys hard boiled eggs..the older boy only comes home once every two weeks. This morning I went up to younger boys (that's here most of the time) room and cleaned out his food trash, turned off all the power he left on and took the eggs out of his room ( mind you, he has been told a million times not to have food in his room..he ignores any rules)...when I came downstairs I went through the other boys candy box and there were eggs in there as well. I do not like having to go through their personal things, but since he will not be home for two weeks. I had to. When I came down, I simply put a note on the fridge, saying difficult child your eggs are in the fridge. Knowing he wants a huge reaction from me and a big drama, I chose to keep it simple. Other strange occurences this week, he also heated up a full plate of mac and cheese and threw it all away, I found a pair of my socks in the basement laying on the floor...also the kid was awake at 11 oclock last night. I didn't bother saying anything to his father, because he would have flipped out on him and me. I figure they can live with the consequences of their actions later. The young man may be angry later that I touched his and his brother's eggs, but it's a chance I have to take since I don't want the house to stink. How would the rest of you have handled this situation? With no support other than my therapist, I wonder if I'm handling this ok?I'm seeing my therapist this morning.