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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 15529" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Isabel, your little guy has been so complex. It's a wonder he gets through the day. Or you.</p><p>I don't think there will ever be a day when you won't wonder what if..... </p><p>I certainly understand the need to make sure he is taken care of. It's something you can do to protect him in a condition where there is little or nothing you can do to cure him. </p><p>I did the same thing. You have to do something that is motherly, maternal. It's crossing the t's and dotting the i's. </p><p>The rage at the fates that would bring this on an innocent child is something I keep locked up. It's an ugly pain. Go ahead and rage for a while. </p><p>I know there isn't much that will make this better and I know you know it's just a label but I also know you see the behavior that has been the reason for the label. Try to remember that he is going to have better days and treatment will improve. Try to think of the folks who manage within their disorder. I hope he learns the skills needed to control his rage. He can still have a life. </p><p></p><p>Many gentle hugs. None of us expected perfection for our children but we expected for them to have a chance at a decent life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 15529, member: 3"] Isabel, your little guy has been so complex. It's a wonder he gets through the day. Or you. I don't think there will ever be a day when you won't wonder what if..... I certainly understand the need to make sure he is taken care of. It's something you can do to protect him in a condition where there is little or nothing you can do to cure him. I did the same thing. You have to do something that is motherly, maternal. It's crossing the t's and dotting the i's. The rage at the fates that would bring this on an innocent child is something I keep locked up. It's an ugly pain. Go ahead and rage for a while. I know there isn't much that will make this better and I know you know it's just a label but I also know you see the behavior that has been the reason for the label. Try to remember that he is going to have better days and treatment will improve. Try to think of the folks who manage within their disorder. I hope he learns the skills needed to control his rage. He can still have a life. Many gentle hugs. None of us expected perfection for our children but we expected for them to have a chance at a decent life. [/QUOTE]
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