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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 689224" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Big thanks to Tanya and walrus.</p><p></p><p>I thought of leaving something to his children. I never knew them and it is not their faults.</p><p></p><p>On the other hand, I do not anticipate getting so much that I can give to people never in my life. I am splitting the assets four ways. Period. I have a few pictures with him in them that I did not give him yet. I will mail them while I am still alive.</p><p></p><p>I don't want him at my funeral. Nobody will even tell him about it so he may not even know about it. I need to talk to our lawyer. Maybe he can send a few sentences to him. That way he won't come to funeral. Ugh. Not that I plan to die soon. My dad is 92. But my mom was 74 and had brain cancer. You never know. I'd like to just have this done. And I don't want him intruding on the true grief of the rest of my family. He dumped all but ex and with ex it's been on and off...Nobody but ex and me (as Mom) has any soft feelings at all toward him, and mine are the memories of whom I thought he was.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 689224, member: 1550"] Big thanks to Tanya and walrus. I thought of leaving something to his children. I never knew them and it is not their faults. On the other hand, I do not anticipate getting so much that I can give to people never in my life. I am splitting the assets four ways. Period. I have a few pictures with him in them that I did not give him yet. I will mail them while I am still alive. I don't want him at my funeral. Nobody will even tell him about it so he may not even know about it. I need to talk to our lawyer. Maybe he can send a few sentences to him. That way he won't come to funeral. Ugh. Not that I plan to die soon. My dad is 92. But my mom was 74 and had brain cancer. You never know. I'd like to just have this done. And I don't want him intruding on the true grief of the rest of my family. He dumped all but ex and with ex it's been on and off...Nobody but ex and me (as Mom) has any soft feelings at all toward him, and mine are the memories of whom I thought he was. [/QUOTE]
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