Hi All, Just shared a few days ago that my son decided not to show up for a court hearing. He now has a warrant out for his arrest. Since my dear ex-hubby and I decided to pay for legal help his felony was reduced to a misdemeanor a few months back, so he wont be picked up until he does something wrong and gets caught. Here"s the crazy thing. My ex and I told him we would help him out until this last trial date. Since he didn't show up to court we stopped. He called today and told me that he bought a motorcycle and he had gone down to San Diego and was living in some house with some really nice people. He told me he would never consider giving himself up, and he was going to live the rest of his life underground. Guess that means I'm off the hook, right? Don't know how he got a wad of money. Figure its either drugs or stealing. It's all lies anyway. That's it. I'm done. Going to my first Coda meeting tomorrow. Can't wait. Thank you all for your support during this ridiculously challenging time. I'm convinced that there has to be a reason for this. I just need to find out what it is. And I will.